And i agreed to what Anne said, friends should be happy for one another. I understand the need to be protective and what not, but seriously, there is a limit to that. Kutuk-mengutuk/ mengata buruk perihal orang lain is not the key to make one listen to you. I, to be honest, have my own dislikings towards that man, but we (whom we called ourselves as her friends) should really stop being judgemental and be happy for her even though the happiness may only be for a short while (then again, we are not psychic enough to predict that right?). No matter how much we hate the guy, or no matter how much we feel that she is immature or soft hearted, I believed we had clearly voice out our opinions and what not, and the decision is up to her. I dont see the wrong of her choice. Its not as if the man is so evil that she's being fucked and impregnated and he is sleeping around with some other hoo-ha(s) u know of or she's being beaten so badly that there's a kitty-scratch on her thumb. So chill lah sikit. She's old enough to answer to her own actions and decisions. I can see she is tougher than before, and from what i heard, she has put a stop to whatever "nonsense" that has been going on. Shouldnt she get a lil credit for that?

And even if she listened to what some of us said, and stay away from him, then what? We have someone better for her isit, someone perfect for her? or you yourself want to have the liberty of making her happy for the rest of her life? Be realistic please. She needs to do this herself. As long as we know that she's not in any kind of danger, there's no need to react that way.

Anyway, since when ur significant other have to be approved by your friends?

Like as if those friends own some match-making agency which can give 100% assurance that yes, that person is the one and only for you, that even if you mati hidup balik 1000 kali, he'll still be the one that is perfect for you. Only then, everybody will tell u to go ahead and screen their bfs coz everybody wants a happily-ever-after life . To me, as long as the man tahu jaga pompuan dia, make her happy in a way that we know we cant provide that happiness, serious (faithful and wants to commit) with her and tak susahkan mak bapak pompuan tu, should be ok pe. Whatelse do we want? Whatelse should we, her friends, ask for kan?

You should know that she treasures the friendships she have with you all, so much so that she's afraid of confrontations or even to speak out her mind, as she doesnt want to jeopardise the friendships. And i can safely say that she treasures one of you more than me, knowing how bonded both of you are.We shouldnt put her on such position. It is after all heartless.

And btw, lines such as “I cant imagine if they hug/kiss” is totally immature.

Who asked you to imagine? And wtf? That was one of the things that comes to your mind when you got to know bout them? And since when you think that others think you and him look good when you kiss/hug. Ni lah kalau orang bebual takda substance.

Entahlah.

tak paham ah.

Ok, i need my nap before zapping of to tuition again

ive been taking lemsip and panadol like some gula2.

Bad flu i have here, i must say.